really don’t like to set aside time for people just to be 放飞机.
hate it, in fact.
I hate dressing up and then waiting for a call that never comes. Then getting irritated with the long wait, I end up having to call the other party to know what’s keeping them so long, only to hear “oh, sorry I cannot make it”. I get that quite a lot and I wonder if it’s because I’m too obliging at times. Yet, I find it hard to say ‘no’ and I don’t like to be late or keep people waiting, so I end up being the silly one.